After 9 years at HEAL Africa, and twelve surgeries, Nyirana Mataiya is healthy and going home. She came to HEAL Africa with a complicated fistula, a tear in the vaginal or rectal wall resulting in incontinence. Nyirana’s fistula was the result of rape. In 2000, when she was 8 months pregnant, militias in the Masisi Mountains where she is from, captured her, held her hostage and five armed men sexually assaulted her. In addition to being left with a particularly severe fistula, she lost her baby as a result of the assault.
Nyirana arrived at HEAL Africa three years later. She had first returned home and tried to hide her misery and pain from her family and friends because she was so ashamed of what had happened. She felt desperate, certain there would never be a cure for her. When she first came to HEAL Africa, there were even doctors that doubted her especially complicated case could be repaired. While a patient at HEAL Africa, thanks to the compassion of doctors, counselors and other staff, hope began to return – slowly at first, but steadily.
Her first few surgeries were unsuccessful. There were some experienced western doctors that came through the hospital and three of them tried at various times to repair the damage, all unsuccessfully. Finally, after her tenth surgery, Nyirana started to feel improvement. “I saw a change after my operation in November, 2011” says the 35 year old woman. “In March, Dr. Christophe Kimona (of HEAL Africa) completed the twelfth operation, and I awoke from the anesthesia sure I was cured”. No one can fully understand the joy she felt in that moment.
During her stay at HEAL Africa and some of the various women’s centers, Nyirana experienced so much more than just medical treatment: “I have learned how to bake, to breed rabbits, goats, and ducks, and how to make clothes.” She now has the skills she needs to support herself and rebuild her life when she returns home.
Not surprisingly, she has a lot of fears and concerns about returning home. At the time she was raped, she had only been married for one year. In the years she’s been gone, her husband has married two more times. She also is worried she will no longer be accustomed to the difficult living conditions that come with living in the remote mountains. Nyirana still remembers her first impressions of HEAL Africa, “There was this beautiful panorama of Lake Kivu, and fresh air.” She has watched as HEAL Africa has grown during her stay – new buildings have popped up as the hospital has expanded to meet the ever increasing needs of patients and the surrounding community. She says that in all these years, only one thing has not changed at HEAL Africa, “The counselors who are welcoming the women are as caring as always”.
*Name changed for security reasons.
You are a beautiful lady and please remember to stay strong. Everyday is a challenge but keep in faith and prayer. May the good Lord bless you and keep you in his love always. xoxox
correction:
Here is a Chinese translation of this story of “miracle” :
劫後進院治療九年後康復回家
在 “治癒非洲” (Heal Africa) 渡過九年的光陰﹐經歷過12次外科手術後﹐ 聶以安娜馬泰雅 (Nyirana Mataiya)終於康復回家去﹐ 當年她帶著十分複雜的瘺來到HA ﹐瘺就是陰道或直腸壁撕裂導致失禁的情況﹐ 聶以安娜馬泰雅 (Nyirana Mataiya)的瘺是被輪姦的結果﹐ 2000年,當她懷孕8個月,在她老家的馬西西山民兵抓住了她,拿她當人質﹐五名持械男子輪姦了她。攻擊的結果﹐除了特別嚴重的瘺,也令她從此失去了她的孩子。
聶以安娜 (Nyirana)在抵達 “治癒非洲” (Heal Africa)三年後﹐第一次回到自己的國家,因為她對所發生的事感到羞愧﹐所以試圖對她的家人和朋友隱瞞她的不幸和痛苦。她感到絕望,覺得絕不會有幫到她的治療。甚至在她第一次來到HA,已經有醫生懷疑她特別複雜的情況會可以修復。在HA當病人期間,感激醫生,輔導員和其他工作人員的關愛,希望開始回來 – 開始時緩慢,但穩定。
她頭幾次外科手術不成功﹐ 有一些很有經驗的西方國家醫生來到醫院﹐ 其中三人試過不同的方法去修理那損毀﹐全部不成功﹐ 最後﹐在她的第十次手術在後﹐聶以安娜 (Nyirana) 開始感覺到有改進﹐ “在2011年11月的一次手術後﹐我看到變化﹐”這位35歲的女士說﹐ “今年三月﹐ 克里斯托夫基莫拿醫生(Dr. Christophe Kimona) (來自 “治癒非洲” (Heal Africa)) 完成了第十二次的手術﹐ 我從麻醉中醒來,這時我肯定被治愈了”沒有人能充分理解她在那一刻的喜悅感覺。
她在 “治癒非洲” (Heal Africa) 和別的的婦女中心時,聶以安娜 (Nyirana) 得到的不只是醫療的待遇:“我已經學會如何烘烤,孵化兔,山羊和鴨子,還有如何做衣服。“她現在有她自己支撐自己返家後重建她的生活所需要的技能
不奇怪,她對回家有很多的恐懼和擔心。在她被強姦時,她才結婚一年。這些年來﹐她不在了,她的丈夫已經兩次再婚。她還擔心,她將不再習慣於居住在偏遠山區的艱苦生活條件。 聶以安娜 (Nyirana) 還記得她的對 “治癒非洲” (Heal Africa) 的第一印象,“這美麗的基伍湖(Lake Kivu, )全景和新鮮的空氣。”在她的逗留期間﹐她見證著”治癒非洲” (Heal Africa) 的成長﹐ 在醫院為配合日益增長的患者需要和所處的社區而擴展時新的建築物不斷建起來﹐ 。她說,在所有這些年來,HA只有一件事沒有改變,“歡迎婦女的輔導員一如既往的親切關懷”。
* 考慮到當事人的安全﹐名字是更換過的
Thanks Anna!
my pleasure Bridget …
Phenomenal story of a strong woman and power of belief and support! I am so inspired to continue to hear the stories from Heal and the work the amazing staff do… keep strong and doing great work!
:)
Thank you for letting women speak telling their stories.
Lyn Lusi desired to see and hear of the empowerment of
Congolese women. Her goal is being reached.
God bless you Nyirana may your story
help other women to respond and seek treatment and speak
out and be healed.
May the Lord Bless you and keep you. Your story will serve as hope and inspiration to others. Peace Be.
Will keep praying fervently for this precious lady, that the Lord will always keep her tucked ever so securely under His wings…..and all her fellow sufferers and their helpers,
God bless you all heaps.
Julie and Peter Rolandsen and family.